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My son has a totally different definition of bedtime. He thinks it’s an opportunity for him to organize a slumber party with his siblings. I once asked him why he wasn’t sleeping yet when I told him to go to bed an hour prior, and he told me that he’d gone to bed as I requested, but hasn’t slept because I didn’t exactly tell him to close his eyes and sleep. He was bouncing on his bed as if it was a trampoline and his sisters were giggling. I was so exasperated! But hey, I thought, maybe I should be more creative, especially since I have such a cunning little boy. But of course, I can’t tailor make a rule or punishment just for him. Whatever rue I make must apply to everyone. How to discipline your children when they devise ways to postpone bedtime? What to do when they keep making bathroom trips or find the need for a glass of water when they’re already tucked in bed, or keep telling stories and giggling when they’re already tucked in? Tell them that they don’t need to go to bed that night. Tell them that they can stay up for as long as they like. May I emphasize the word stay up, because they have to stand up facing the wall in separate corners of their room until you tell them that they can return to bed. If this doesn’t work, make them stand or at least stay in separate rooms of the house. If official bedtime is at 9:00 o’clock but your child always finds a way to move it to 9:30, set up a penalty. Everytime he or she fails to be in bed on time, tell him or her that she has to get into bed 5 or 10 minutes earlier the following evening. And let this rule be a long standing regulation and applicable to every succeeding infraction. If they’ve been good however, reward them with a 5 or 10-minute extension before bedtime, or if they complete the week, give them an extra hour up beyond bedtime over the weekend. Martial arts is an attractive sport for kids especially to those who have experienced bullying. With perfected karate moves they imagine of getting even with their offenders. More than that, there are noted benefits which your kids can derive from learning the sport. The first of which is discipline. By practicing the techniques, they gain self-control and concentration. When they are disciplined, they are able to move up the levels and acquire self-esteem for what they have achieved. On a positive note, they are confident that they can do more if they are just motivated to do so. As they train to climb up the ranks, kids get a view of paying respect to those who are a rank or a couple of ranks higher than them. Also, they are able to keep in mind giving respect to their teachers who are key in equipping them with the right skills. Balance, physical fitness and self-defense are part of the physiological benefits your kids would enjoy. Lack of balance often results to injuries. By knowing how to balance the body, kids can anticipate wrong positioning of the body. Moving forward, repeated trainings to learn and execute a specific technique make kids strong and physically fit. And when they are aware of their being fit and strong, kids are most likely to defend themselves without question. |
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